1. Prior to reading this book, how would you have imagined an autistic woman? How does Stella compare to this vision?    2. Stella was surprised when she heard her coworker Philip James had been asked out by their new intern. When it comes to heterosexual relationships, do you think men should be the initiators? What does it say about a woman if she asks out a man?    3. Does it surprise you to see an autistic person exploring a sexual relationship? If so, why?    4. With